Time for a drink

Stresses of life can wear us down,

Making us sad, making us frown.

We wish that all were noble and nice,

But some have nothing but hearts of ice.

They only see their power and needs,

And we all wonder, is there an end to their greed?

Answers will come, but only in time.

Let us just hope, it’s not the end of the line.

Meanwhile, we’ll wait and have time to think,

So we may as well all have, a good stiff drink.


For Sally D’s Mobile Photography Challenge ~ Black and White.



New year, better you

Everyone likes a fresh start, a chance to begin again. Yet, all our fresh starts don’t necessarily mean the end of something else. Well, not exactly.

To start something by definition, is to begin. So naturally, if you are beginning a task or project, it is safe to assume you are not currently doing it. However, most of us are not naturally gifted in every facet of life. We need to learn about things. We practice. We prepare.

That is how I see the new year. The year past is not all bad and something to be discarded. (Even for the long and painful year 2016.) The past 12 months was practice. Maybe you didn’t get it all right. Maybe you made some regrettable mistakes. Hey, don’t hang your head too low. We cannot win all the time. And what really matters is that you realize what you want to change.

All those days where you think you could have done better, just laid the foundation for your new year. They are the fertilizer for your new goals, whatever they may be. Think of them like the fallen autumn leaves.

They are experiences you cannot place back on your tree. They are memories at your feet, good or bad. All you can do now is look back and enjoy them, or learn from them. All you have now, is the present. But, without our past experiences, who is to say we would be the same people we are now? That’s the thing. You cannot change the past, so it’s a question you will never answer.

So instead of wasting time on the past, move forward. Embrace the new year and the chance to build a better you. Use your past as a lesson to tweak your plans and goals. For every day you awake, is a new opportunity to live. And like the fall leaves, grow older with grace and color and character. Be bold until your last day.

New Year’s Day. A fresh start. A new chapter in life waiting to be written.

New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved.

Answers to be discovered and then lived

in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery.

Today, carve out a quiet interlude for yourself in which to dream, pen in hand.

Only dreams give birth to change.

~Sarah Ban Breathnach~



For Sally D’s Mobile Photography Challenge ~ Nature.


Putting down the camera

There is something magical about photography to me. I find it is a way to freeze time almost. Photographs show a glimpse of a present moment, bringing it into the future.

Photography has also been a factor in my appreciation of life. As a walk around, I notice more. I see tiny details. I appreciate textures. I study natural light. It is though there is a constant lens on my eyes that filters out all the world’s bad so that I can only see the good.

Yet, this constant lens can also be a way to detach from the moment.

Recently, I went on vacation with my love. We went off to an island to relax. I was surrounded by topical wonders: beaches, waterfalls, flowers and so much more. On our first day, we were walking around checking out the resort, and I noticed my mental lens was in overdrive. I was thinking, oh, that would make a nice picture... Then it dawned on me, by looking at everything as a future picture, I was not completely in the moment. I was thinking about photographs and not the man standing beside me.

In that moment, I had to remove the lens from my eyes. I had to stop capturing the moment for later so that I could embrace it then. I still noticed the wonder around me, but this time, I tried to focus on what is was and not the photo it could be.

I also made a conscious decision to not carry a camera around constantly. I took photos of course, but I limited it to a couple of hours during the week.

It was hard, I admit. Here I was in a tropical resort and no camera in hand. Isn’t that a photographer’s worst nightmare? I survived though. As a matter of fact, I had fun.

Without a big camera to worry about or lug around, my boyfriend and I were able to just be. We held hands on the beach. We hiked up a waterfall. We danced on a catamaran. It was exciting, and yet relaxing…and truly beautiful.

This beauty may not have all been captured in photos, but it was captured in my heart nonetheless. Ironically, as I looked for a quote on details to accompany my macro submission to Sally D’s Mobile Photography Challenge, I came across a quote by Susan Sontag that said what I felt that week.


I would have to agree with her. Many times, my travel somewhere is defined by the photographs I harvest. In fact, when I left for the vacation, I was thinking about what iPhone photos I could take for Sally D’s Challenge. I planned on making a post there at the resort.

That plan changed though as life took over and fun was embraced…and I don’t regret it one bit (and I knew Sally would understand).

So in lieu of a macro shots from my vacation, I am sharing some iPhone close ups that I had intended on posting earlier.

And since Sally D has introduced me to Pixlr, I played around with one of them to make it more “arty.”

As I started this post I was going to write a poem or talk about details that connected to my iPhone shots above. However, when I found the Susan Sontag quote above, my thoughts all turned. And when I looked up a bit more Sontag, I found another quote that really resounded with me.

Photographs have increased our access to knowledge and experiences of history and faraway places, but the images may replace direct experience and limit reality.

I find that statement very profound because when I look at my shots above, I can only recall the pictures. I don’t recall where I was or what I was doing, which I generally do. I don’t remember anything about the moment I took those pictures at all. I just have the photos. Though I like them, I now wonder, what did I miss?

Perhaps putting down the camera last week was the best decision for my vacation.

I am not saying that I am hanging up my camera for good. Oh no, I wouldn’t be me without one. But maybe just maybe, I can try to look at the world and enjoy it and those around me without a constant lens on my eyes. I figure, if I put down the the camera from time to time, I can not only see the details and textures in life, but I can feel them as well.

So in honor of embracing all that life can offer, here is one of the few iPhone shots we took while on the island. Now go put away your phone or computer and go hug those you love:)




For Sally D’s Mobile Photography Challenge ~ Macro.